Monday, February 9, 2009
valentines day...
so, my boyfriend and i have been together for three years but two valentines days so far and both of them have been a disaster. so this year we were hoping to have a nice romantic night together and just have a beautiful valentines day, but due to the lack of money we both have, that just might not happen. :( but let me tell you about the first two years. well, the first year we were together i was 16 and he was only 15 and neither of us drove, but we still had dinner reservations for mimi's cafe in folsom. the only problem was that his mom thought she was invited too since she was driving. needless to say, we all got into a huge, i mean HUGE, fight that ended up in us breaking up on valentines day because she forbade us to see each other ever again. the next year was sort of successful. my friend and i skipped school and went shopping all day for cute little things and sexy lingerie to make the night romantic. but my boyfriend was really grumpy that day because we were going through break-ups and make-ups like every day and he practically hated me all the time. (that was the rough 6 months of our relationship) but i spent the night at his house anyways and it was nothing like i wanted. yeah, we spent the night together but i'm pretty sure we just fought the whole time. so this year, our relationship is the most perfect thing i could ever ask for and we really wanted to do something cute. once again, his mom is going to be away and we get the house to ourselves. so all i asked for was for him to just make me a candlelit dinner and rent some lovey-dovey movies and have a quiet night at home where we can just be all lovey and perfect. it doesn't cost money to be romantic and express your love. so, i have high hopes for this year. so! happy valentines day everyone!!!!
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I realize that the first Valentines Day was bad for you, but as an outsider reading this, the idea of his mom thinking she was included was pretty funny. I hope you can look back and laugh at the absurdedy of it.
ReplyDeleteI have a similar thing with New Years Eve. For the past 4 or 5 years, everytime I try and plan something great for New Years Eve, it all falls apart at the last minute or is just a general disappointment. I used to go to Disneyland every year, which was really fun, but it is just too expensive. Isn't it a bummer how money can effect the holidays so much!